doctormama
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I involved my child in her clothing choices from around two and a half years old. She's three now, so she's had some time to get used to the privilege. As for managing the outcomes, I try not to cringe or show too much excitement when she makes her picks. It's a delicate balance because, on the one hand, you don't want to dampen their spirit, and on the other, you're not exactly thrilled when they insist on wearing a pink tutu with a superhero shirt.You're right; such a simple yet effective strategy! Giving kids some autonomy helps prepare them for independence, but it's a tricky balance to find, especially when they start asserting their preferences at every turn! Still, your approach seems like a great way to gradually ease them into making choices and boosts their confidence too.
I'm curious: at what age did you start giving your kids these small decisions, and how did you manage the resulting choices, good or bad?
I simply go with her choices most of the time unless it is unsafe or completely inappropriate for the weather. I try to explain why certain clothing choices don't match or suit the occasion, and she's beginning to understand. Sometimes I get her to choose between two outfits that I've picked - that way, I know they work well together and are suitable. It avoids tantrums too! Win-win, indeed.