That's great to know! Swaddling is a useful skill, a lot of my friends have sworn by it too, helping their little ones settle better. Baby calming techniques are worth their weight in gold - anything that helps them sleep longer!
As you mentioned, breastfeeding can be tough, and pumping can be a chore, so I'm glad you're looking into getting some assistance ahead of time!Mums of multiples tend to forget about themselves because there are just so many demands from the little ones. But it's certainly good to keep in mind something to look forward to, like a date night! It helps us keep our sanity too and makes us realize there is life outside of feedings and diaper changes.
Yep, keeping our sanity depends on realizing there's life beyond breastfeeding and nappy changes! Haha. Thanks for joining the conversation; hopefully, we can help each other out with more useful tips as this thread goes on!Mums of multiples tend to forget about themselves because there are just so many demands from the little ones. But it's certainly good to keep in mind something to look forward to, like a date night! It helps us keep our sanity too and makes us realize there is life outside of feedings and diaper changes
The excitement of having doubles is overwhelming, isn't it? It's like preparing for not one but two little suns that will shine in your life! Your focus and determination to provide the best for them are admirable. the experiences of others can help us newbies navigate this new adventure.
Swaddling is an age-old trick that really does help, provided the babies are OK with being wrapped up snugly! It's a great way to soothe and calm them, especially if they've been overexcited during the day and need some help winding down. Old techniques can be gold sometimes! Any other traditional methods that have worked well for you guys?
There's so much to learn and prepare for with twins! It's encouraging to hear these practical insights and tips for survival that most parents would've wish they had known earlier!
Having that network of support can really make all the difference - not just for the practical help but also for the moral support and encouragement! It's a big adjustment, so having people to lean on is such a blessing.
It's also so true that we mothers often neglect our own needs while tending to the twins. But hey, ask me, and I'll tell you it's absolutely okay to indulge in some self-care and even spoil yourself every once in a while. It's beneficial for your own wellbeing and keeps the mummy sanity intact!
That's very true; time really flies by, so enjoying and appreciating these moments are important! The struggles and sleep deprivation seem temporary in hindsight. I also agree that seeking help or advice doesn't mean we're inadequate; it's more like wise planning or efficient problem-solving - getting pointers from experienced parents can really make a difference! It saves us time and effort, especially with two little humans depending on us.
It sure is a crazy ride and one that you don't wanna miss while you're busy navigating the chaos! Ask away and enjoy those little moments because they grow up fast!
It's a wild ride, that's for sure! There's so much to learn and prepare for; it can be downright daunting! But hey, us parents got this!
Absolutely! There's a valid reason why flight attendants remind passengers to secure their own oxygen masks before helping others - you're no good to anyone if you've passed out! Self-care is important, whether it's a hobby, exercise, or just some quiet me-time.
I never understood why anyone would need multiple bags when they go out with a baby until I had kids. Now, I realize that having a well-stocked diaper bag with everything easily accessible is a literal lifesaver! And yes, being able to differentiate between the twins' items without having to check labels is another good trick to learn quickly!
Some really good, actionable advice being shared here! I love the practical nature of these discussions. Keep them coming, mummies!
It's true; it's the encouragement and morale support from others that makes everything manageable. That's the thing about motherhood: You don't have to tough it out alone!
Mummy instincts kick in surprisingly even amid the sleep deprivation! Experience shared is knowledge gained, so I appreciate the input from you ladies. Some good old advice and tips are welcome, especially for a first-timer like me!
Enjoying the ride certainly makes parenting twins worth it, despite the craziness! There's always some cute moment or development to appreciate if we stay present. Thanks for the reminders, ladies; it's encouraging to hear these thoughts!
Some parents I know practice the art of baby wearing - carrying their babies in special wraps or carriers. It's a great hands-free way to soothe fussy babies and also allows them to bond with both parents as they get used to each other's smells and sounds.
Some traditional methods I found helpful were massage techniques for calming and soothing baby gas pains. My mom also swear swears by using a soft cloth to gently pat the babies' backs, simulating the motion of wiping their bottom, which would instantly comfort them when they were fussy as newborns. Old school methods often have a lot of gentle and comforting physical touches, very heartwarming and bonding indeed!
