As a mother, I find that maintaining a consistent routine also helps in managing toddler behavior. While it may not be as exciting or quirky as secret missions, establishing regular mealtimes, naptimes, and playtimes provide structure and predictability, which helps toddlers feel secure. They know what to expect throughout the day, minimizing surprises that might trigger melt-downs.
Additionally, including your little ones in deciding the consequences for their misbehaviors empowers them and teaches them responsibility. After misbehaving, you could ask them, "What do you think should happen now?" This way, they feel involved and understand the relationship between actions and repercussions.