I feel you on that! It's like, why bother fact-checking if you're just gonna dismiss the sources anyway? That's what gets me worked up too; it's so annoying when people dig their heels in despite the evidence. Like, do you even know how to Google?! *rolls eyes*
Yes, it's so infuriating when people insist on remaining close-minded despite the availability of evidence! I feel ya on theMom Group; been there, experienced that. The unsolicited advice and judgement from other mums can be so exhausting.
You hit the nail on the head - the judgement and unsolicited advice from other moms can be so tiresome! I also get frustrated when people ask me if I'm "getting back to work" after having a baby, like being a stay-at-home mom isn't a real job. It's 24/7 with no holidays or weekends off, yet somehow it's seen as less than a 'real' job. Grrr!Yes, it's so infuriating when people insist on remaining close-minded despite the availability of evidence! I feel ya on theMom Group; been there, experienced that. The unsolicited advice and judgement from other mums can be so exhausting.
And I completely agree about being a SAHM! It's a lot more challenging than people give credit for, and the 'luck' comment minimizes all the effort, dedication and sacrifices made. It's certainly not an easy peasy leisure time!
What else has got you fired up today?
Yes, the SAHMjudgement is real! People seem to have this idea of stay-at-home moms that it's a jolly vacation where days are spent leisurely catching up on soaps, while the kids quietly entertain themselves. In reality, it's a full-time job with no breaks and lots of physical and mental demands, which is also emotionally draining at times!
You're right; it's like some folks just love to criticize! The judgment never ends, and it's usually the same people who feel superior simply because they chose a different path. Like, cool it with the side-eyes and eye rolls already!Yes, the SAHMjudgement is real! People seem to have this idea of stay-at-home moms that it's a jolly vacation where days are spent leisurely catching up on soaps, while the kids quietly entertain themselves. In reality, it's a full-time job with no breaks and lots of physical and mental demands, which is also emotionally draining at times!
The mommy wars are alive and well, with every type of parenting style being criticized by others. I guess some folks just love to hear themselves talk, spouting opinions even if they're not asked for. Can't we just all agree to disagree, mind our own business, and respect one another's choices?!
What else is bugging you guys? Any other annoyances weighing on your minds today?
Oh gosh yes, the MLM thing is so annoying! Those pyramid schemes can be really pushy and it's so frustrating to politely decline those 'invitations' because they usually come from people you know. It's like, if I wanted to join one, wouldn't I just do it? Sheesh!
Ha, venting definitely helps though!
Yup, those MLM schemes can be really annoying especially since the products are usually overpriced and not exactly necessary. And you're right about the mom guilt - it seems inevitable no matter what choices we make! There's always someone somewhere who'll have an opinion on it. We're all doing our best though, and that's what mattersOh gosh yes, the MLM thing is so annoying! Those pyramid schemes can be really pushy and it's so frustrating to politely decline those 'invitations' because they usually come from people you know. It's like, if I wanted to join one, wouldn't I just do it? Sheesh!
The mom guilt can also be a major irritant - like you're not doing enough or being the "perfect" mom, whatever that means. Sometimes it feels like an insurmountable mountain to climb and no matter what decisions you make, someone will disagree with it. Ugh, this whole conversation is making me fume!
It's great to be able to share these frustrations and find common ground. It's reassuring to know that others go through the same things!Yup, those MLM schemes can be really annoying especially since the products are usually overpriced and not exactly necessary. And you're right about the mom guilt - it seems inevitable no matter what choices we make! There's always someone somewhere who'll have an opinion on it. We're all doing our best though, and that's what matters
Absolutely! It's a nice reminder that we're not alone in our frustrations - motherhood can be a challenging and isolating experience at times, so it's nice to connect and share these annoyances.
There really is solace in knowing that many parents go through similar situations! It's a good reminder that we're all doing our best.
That sense of camaraderie is comforting, indeed! We may as well laugh off the frustations together
Does anyone have any funny or light-hearted mom/parenting annoyances to share? Something to brighten up this thread maybe 
As a parent, I do feel like laughter helps when dealing with some of these frustrations. Especially when you realize that many issues are not unique and can happen to anyone. In my experience, one such situation happened recently when my oldest started his phase of wanting the opposite of what he first requested. It would go:That sense of camaraderie is comforting, indeed! We may as well laugh off the frustations together
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It's a daily adventure, this parenting thing ain't it? But those little humorous moments make it all worth while.As a parent, I do feel like laughter helps when dealing with some of these frustrations. Especially when you realize that many issues are not unique and can happen to anyone. In my experience, one such situation happened recently when my oldest started his phase of wanting the opposite of what he first requested. It would go:
Child: Can we go outside? Me: Sure thing! Let me just change your brother's diaper and grab the bag for our stuff. Child: No!! I don't want to go outside anymore
The little unpredictable quirky characters that they are - children sure do keep life interesting!
Indeed, they surely keep us on our toes and add a lot of spontaneity to our lives! They're little personalities are a delight even amid the challenges.
You said it! Amidst the frustrations we share in this thread, I'm sure most of us here still agree that the quirkiness and unpredictable nature of kids make life more fun too!
Yeah, can't deny they bring a lot of excitement and adventure! Keep things interesting for sure.
They do keep things interesting.. and i suppose it's quite reassuring to know that the little frustrations we experience are shared by so many other parents! It's a crazy ride but someone once said that these years are the ones we'll miss when they're grown and out of the house, so might as well enjoy the little antics while they last.
That is true, and I'm sure most parents would agree that the frustrations are often outweighing by moments of joy and fun!
