As a yoga instructor and parent, my approach to this issue is holistic. My strategy involves prioritizing and awareness. I make a conscious effort daily to be present and focus on the task at hand - whether that's work or an activity outside of work.
This mindfulness extends to my mealtimes, which I use as markers between work and personal life. Eating with awareness, enjoying every bite, helps me shift gears between work and home life, making sure one doesn't bleed into the other. Also, keeping a planner lets me visualize and organize my commitments, ensuring that work boundaries are respected and personal time remains sacred.
What are some of your tactics for maintaining this tricky work-life balance?
My strategy is pretty no-nonsense and practical, to be honest. As a nutritionist, I understand the importance of boundaries even more since the topic of my work revolves around food and wellness, which can quickly become an all-encompassing obsession if I let it. So here's how I maintain perspective:
1. Work is work, period: I keep it professional, do my best during the designated time, and that's it. Once I'm out of the office, I'm out. I do not entertain work-related matters unless it's an absolute emergency.
This means closing all work apps on my phone and avoiding any non-urgent work-related notifications, which helps me separate my personal life from the office gossip and grind. This also saves some energy for me since work modes and dramas can be exhausting, and you wouldn't want that draining your battery outside working hours.
2. Schedule strict self-care: Self-care is not selfish, so I make sure to schedule time for exercise, good food, and rest. Taking care of yourself allows you to show up as the best version of yourself in all aspects of life, which is never selfish. So whether it's hitting a yoga class, going for a run, or preparing a nutritious meal, I make these non-negotiables in my day-to-day life.
3-. Saying nay: Learning to say no to certain requests or commitments outside of my expertise or interests is crucial. I understand that we all have different strengths, so if someone wants something that's not really my thing, I'll recommend someone else who can help them better and avoid overloading myself. That gracious art of saying no also applies to taking on additional workload when you're already stretched thin. It's important to recognize your limits and respect your boundaries because, beyond a certain point, quality suffers anyway.
4. Zone out: I do this digital detoxification thing occasionally, usually during the weekends. It helps me refocus on hobbies and passions unrelated to work or wellness. I might go on hikes or simply enjoy some good old book-and-coffee time without the distraction of notifications. This disconnecting helps me tune out the professional world and connect more deeply with my family and personal interests.
I reckon it's also about mindset: understanding that work is only one aspect of your life, albeit an important means to provide for yourself and your family. But there are other meaningful aspects of your life that contribute to your fulfillment and happiness, which deserve equal attention!
What're your thoughts on that? Do you have any fun, relaxing rituals outside of work that help you recharge?