I have a few go-to techniques which are really helpful for fostering independence in kids. One of them is what I call a "Reverse Countdown". Typically, my son tends to resist getting ready when he knows it's time to leave - putting on his shoes, turning off the TV, etc. To tackle this, I initiate a reverse countdown by informing him, "We're heading out in 5 minutes, so please finish up your drink or pick up your toys now!" It helps him pace his activities and gives him that additional nudge without me having to remind or nag him.
Another technique which I've found useful is the good old " Distract and Direct ". This comes in handy when you need some cooperation, especially for redirecting their focus off unwanted behavior. For instance, if your child is engrossed in playing and showing little interest in getting dressed, an abrupt request to get ready might face resistance. Instead, I would divert his attention by striking up a conversation about something exciting, like the park he gets to visit after his appointment (a dentist visit, for example). It helps redirect his thoughts and makes the transition smoother with less fuss.
These little psychological hacks work wonders! They help speed things along and build that all-important life skill of independence. Kids are smart; we just have to engage their minds and give them some ownership over the situation.