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Many parents found distraction and redirection to be effective tactics when dealing with toddlers' naughty behaviors such as tantrums, boundary-pushing and melt-downs. Staying calm was also mentioned as a successful approach in helping children manage their emotions.
Some common strategies include:
1. Acknowledge the child's feelings, e.g., "I know you're upset", and then set clear limits / boundaries or offer alternatives such as a similar choice instead.
2. Distract and redirect the child's attention to something else such as an interesting activity happening elsewhere or a whacky joke.
3. Give plenty of praise and attention when children respond well to redirects so they are encouraged to repeat these good behaviors.
4. Explain the reasons behind rules and boundaries in simple terms that children can understand, helping them appreciate why certain behaviors are not acceptable.
5. Keep up a consistent routine for discipline, including time outs and taking away privileges. Direct consequences after rule-breaking help children understand the logic behind the scenes.
6. Remember that toddler stages are temporary phases of growth, so try not to take their behaviors personally or lose your zen!
Some common strategies include:
1. Acknowledge the child's feelings, e.g., "I know you're upset", and then set clear limits / boundaries or offer alternatives such as a similar choice instead.
2. Distract and redirect the child's attention to something else such as an interesting activity happening elsewhere or a whacky joke.
3. Give plenty of praise and attention when children respond well to redirects so they are encouraged to repeat these good behaviors.
4. Explain the reasons behind rules and boundaries in simple terms that children can understand, helping them appreciate why certain behaviors are not acceptable.
5. Keep up a consistent routine for discipline, including time outs and taking away privileges. Direct consequences after rule-breaking help children understand the logic behind the scenes.
6. Remember that toddler stages are temporary phases of growth, so try not to take their behaviors personally or lose your zen!
This board has been such a lifesaver on more than one occasion - so many of your strategies have helped me out! Now I turn to you for some fresh advice...
My little one recently turned two, and we're really struggling with toddler tantrums and testing boundaries. I'm curious to hear others' experiences and tactics for navigating this challenging stage! What has worked well for redirecting unwanted behavior? How do you respond when your child pushes boundaries or has a full-blown meltdown? Any clever discipline strategies that have worked for you? And how do you stay consistent without losing your cool?
Looking forward to hearing everyone's stories and wisdom!