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To keep bedtime fun, engaging and less of a battle with toddlers, parents shared their successful strategies:
- Make bedtime fun: Create positive associations with books and calmness through fun games and special books only brought out at bedtime. This helps toddlers look forward to the routine.
- Give choices: Allow your child to choose between options like two bedtime stories or different types of milk to empower them and make them feel in control.
- Ignore problematic behavior: Often, the best response is no reaction at all. Toddlers soon learn that their tactics aren’t effective and either adapt or stop.
- Offer a role: Give toddlers specific tasks or responsibilities like choosing the story or helping with pajama choices to make them feel important and included in the process.
For handling delayed tactics like stalling and dawdling, parents shared these techniques:
- Acknowledge feelings & redirect: Let your child know you understand their emotions but firmly state it's still bedtime. Offer a brief distraction like a quick story or drink to shift their focus towards settling.
- Warn of upcoming changes: Give a warning 10 minutes before turning off the lights, helping toddlers prepare mentally and adjust to the transition.
- Offer limited choices after lights out: Present a simple either/or situation and follow through if they don't comply, maintaining control while giving some autonomy.
- Make bedtime fun: Create positive associations with books and calmness through fun games and special books only brought out at bedtime. This helps toddlers look forward to the routine.
- Give choices: Allow your child to choose between options like two bedtime stories or different types of milk to empower them and make them feel in control.
- Ignore problematic behavior: Often, the best response is no reaction at all. Toddlers soon learn that their tactics aren’t effective and either adapt or stop.
- Offer a role: Give toddlers specific tasks or responsibilities like choosing the story or helping with pajama choices to make them feel important and included in the process.
For handling delayed tactics like stalling and dawdling, parents shared these techniques:
- Acknowledge feelings & redirect: Let your child know you understand their emotions but firmly state it's still bedtime. Offer a brief distraction like a quick story or drink to shift their focus towards settling.
- Warn of upcoming changes: Give a warning 10 minutes before turning off the lights, helping toddlers prepare mentally and adjust to the transition.
- Offer limited choices after lights out: Present a simple either/or situation and follow through if they don't comply, maintaining control while giving some autonomy.
There's so many strategies to keeping on top of toddler behavior, but which ones actually work? Share your go-to techniques for successful toddler management here! Talk about methods that keep your patience in check and your sanity intact - what works best for you?