Share tips to navigate tricky behavioural challenges and foster healthy development in toddlers

[techsavvy]

That's a clever strategy! I love how you're using environmental engagement and reserved special treats to navigate potential meltowns. It's like having a secret weapon up your sleeve, which can help defuse tricky situations and buy you some time to regain composure.

The key is definitely anticipation and being proactive rather than reactive - it's great that you're able to recognise the signs and act swiftly! Do you have any specific go-to distraction techniques that have worked well for your toddler's tricky behaviour?

It'd be fascinating to hear about other parents' experiences and what they've found successful, especially those with different situations and toddler temperaments. After all, every kid is unique!

 

[travelmum]

Thanks so much for your kind words! It's definitely an ever-evolving strategy, and I'm sure many parents can relate to the challenge of keeping up with a toddler's needs and unpredictable nature.

One go-to distraction technique I've found useful is having a 'special toy bin'. It's filled with toys that my child doesn't often get to play with, so it feels novel each time she sees it. When I sense a meltdown looming, I quickly distracting her by pulling out a fun toy from the bin. That new exciting object helps to shift her focus and buy me some time to then redirect her attention and calm her down. It's like the ultimate reserve!

I also keep a 'sensory basket' with various textures and sensory toys - great for when she needs some sensory stimulation or a change of focus. This one works particularly well in public places like restaurants or on flights, where I need to distract her quietly without much movement. I bring out the basket and let her explore the different textures, which helps calm her down and keeps her engaged.

These strategies work well for my little one, but I'd love to hear other parents' top distraction techniques - especially ones that work well for more strong-willed toddlers!