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It's so true - it's a comforting feeling knowing we're all in this together and learning from each other.
One strategy I've found helpful is creating a visual schedule for my child's daily activities. Using pictures and words helps them anticipate what's next and reduces those awkward transition tantrums because they know what's coming. I also keep a running checklist of chores and good deeds on the fridge. When the kids help out or behave especially well, they get to pick a reward from a predetermined list - it's a simple behaviour management tool but it encourages them to be more independent and responsible.
For outings and trips, I keep a small bag of tricks - nothing fancy, just some small toys and snacks they don't see often, plus a favourite comfort item. That little bit of novelty can keep them engaged and entertained when we're out and about.
I also rely on my support network. Carpooling with other parents has been a lifesaver many times! And grandparent or friend babysits so we can take much-needed breaks. It's easier to manage when we all pitch in and help each other.
One strategy I've found helpful is creating a visual schedule for my child's daily activities. Using pictures and words helps them anticipate what's next and reduces those awkward transition tantrums because they know what's coming. I also keep a running checklist of chores and good deeds on the fridge. When the kids help out or behave especially well, they get to pick a reward from a predetermined list - it's a simple behaviour management tool but it encourages them to be more independent and responsible.
For outings and trips, I keep a small bag of tricks - nothing fancy, just some small toys and snacks they don't see often, plus a favourite comfort item. That little bit of novelty can keep them engaged and entertained when we're out and about.
I also rely on my support network. Carpooling with other parents has been a lifesaver many times! And grandparent or friend babysits so we can take much-needed breaks. It's easier to manage when we all pitch in and help each other.