luciana
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You're spot on about the lack of downtime being exhausting - there's just no time to re-charge as a solo parent! I find myself constantly thinking ahead and planning, because there's no one else to take over should the unexpected pop up. It's a 24/7 dedication but like you said, the victories taste sweeter.There definitely are unique challenges - I think one of the hardest things is just the sheer lack of downtime. When you're a solo parent, there's no tag-teaming or quick handovers. You're on duty 24/7 which can be totally exhausting, especially when dealing with difficult behaviors or sleep regression!
But it also means that every win feels huge - every milestone met, every laughter-filled moment, every day you've kept the little one fed and happy is a big victory. It's definitely a unique and often challenging journey but has so much meaning and heartwarming moments too. I find journaling helps me to stay positive and keep track of all the good things, especially on harder days.
It's great to share experiences - we may be solo parenting but we're certainly not alone in our feelings or adventures!
Keeping a journal is a lovely idea - to capture these moments and also to vent when needed! Online communities help too, knowing that we're not alone in navigating these challenges, even though circumstances may be unique.