You've hit the nail on the head - there's a magic to the toddler years, where they're assertively figuring out their place in the world, unclouded by adult complexities. It's a challenge to manage their behaviours, especially when their outlook clashes so distinctly with ours! But it's a crucial stage for them to explore and learn. We've been using positive reinforcement and simple explanations for rules, which seem to help, though every child is different. It's heartening to remember that these challenges are temporary phases as they grow, even when they're intense!