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musical asked for advice on handling her two-year old's recent aggressive behaviour. She has tried redirecting him but with no luck, and is looking for strategies to deal with what seems to be a constant phase. Lioness and greenfingers suggested acknowledging the toddler’s emotions first then offering alternatives ways to express frustration, like shouting into a pillow or hitting a soft toy. This method helps children learn that it’s okay to feel big emotions but they need to express them in acceptable ways. Mamamia added that giving kids the words to vocalise their feelings and teaching them why they have them can help prevent meltdowns. She also suggested teaching deep breathing as a way to calm down, along with creating a dedicated ‘Calm Down Corner’ filled with soothing items like pillows and toys to encourage self-soothing and role play. This was met with agreement from other contributors who also praised these simple yet effective methods and shared additional ideas such as making an emotion jar and decorating calm down boxes to make them more inviting and engaging for children. Bookworm concluded that every child is different so it’s important to find what works best but these strategies can help prepare parents for tricky emotional situations.
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