One strategy I've found useful is creating a "toddler toolkit" for meal prep. It's like a special box of toys, but everything inside has a specific use in the kitchen. For instance, it could have measuring cups/spoons, a small whisk, a peeler, and a kid-safe knife. This gives them an important role in the cooking process and the variety keeps things fun!
My child's favorite item is a mini strainer, which they use to help wash fruits and veggies. They also love using their own special apron with pockets that we decorated together. It's cute and functional, keeping their little hands free from mess—a major win for me!
We also grow herbs on the windowsill, and the whole family enjoys picking them together when cooking. It's a simple way to learn about fresh ingredients and it adds a fun, sensory element to the experience. Plus, the fragrant smells are very engaging!
Their absolute favorite recipe is our "tot-chos"! Inspired by nachos, we use toddler-friendly ingredients, loads of cheese, and plenty of colorful veggies, all cooked on a toddler-safe melamine plate with compartments. It's fun, Messy, and delicious!