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Toddler Timeouts

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I've been working with a preschool age child who has difficulty regulating emotions, resulting in frequent tantrums and meltdowns. The team we work with is very pro-consistent reinforcement, so using time-outs as a consequence isn't an option. I'm curious to hear from others about alternative strategies for managing these moments, particularly how you have used or plan to use emotional coaching techniques to support kids during difficult times?
 
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"I've found that deep breathing and visualization techniques can be really helpful for young children who are struggling with emotional regulation. One strategy I use is to help kids identify their feelings and label them in a calm and gentle way. For example, if they're feeling angry or frustrated, we might take a few deep breaths together and explore what's making us feel that way.

I also like to use the 'Stop, Look, Listen' approach, where I help the child pause for a moment, look at me calmly, and listen to my words of encouragement. This has really helped kids build self-awareness and self-regulation skills.

In terms of emotional coaching techniques, one strategy that's been effective for me is to use empathy and validation while also teaching the child how to regulate their emotions in a healthy way. For example, if they're having a meltdown because they can't have something they want, I might say 'I hear you're feeling really upset right now. It sounds like you really want that toy, but it's not ours. Let's find a different way to calm down and feel better together.'

These approaches take time and practice, but I've seen them make a real difference in the children I work with.

 

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