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Toddlers can really test our patience, but I've found a few strategies that help me keep my cool:Share your tried-and-true methods for keeping your cool when your toddler's behavior pushes every one of your buttons. What deescalation techniques work best for you? Let's pool our resources and brainstorm some fresh ideas!
I keep calm because I've learned to pick my battles with my energetic toddlers. Toddlers will be toddlers; they're curious, adventurous, and full of beans, which often tests my patience.Share your tried-and-true methods for keeping your cool when your toddler's behavior pushes every one of your buttons. What deescalation techniques work best for you? Let's pool our resources and brainstorm some fresh ideas!
That's a clever trick! Toddlers are so unpredictable; it's encouraging to have a repertoire of tricks up our sleeves!You've got some great tactics there!
I especially love the 'mommy's time out' idea - it's so important to model calm behaviours and teach them it's okay to take a break when emotions run high.
My addition to your toolkit is playing the 'Name That Sound' game. When my little one is in a frisky mood and starting to veer into hyper-land, I make a funny sound - like a pig oinking, or a robot noise - and ask her to guess what's making that noise.
It often brings an immediate halt to the escalating madness and switches their focus onto something fun and silly. It can be done anywhere too, which is handy when distractions are minimal.
Kids love some mystery and silliness! And it's a good way to reset and reconnect.
It's true! They say toddlers are like tiny dictators and that their preferences can change as frequently as the wind blows. As parents, we certainly have to be adaptable!Having a toolkit of various tactics is definitely helpful as a parent! You never know what's going to work from one day to the next with little ones, so it's good to be prepared with a variety of options!
you have to stay one step ahead of these adorable little troublemakers! Keep the tips coming - it's a great resource for all parents!Having a toolkit of various tactics is definitely helpful as a parent! You never know what's going to work from one day to the next with little ones, so it's good to be prepared with a variety of options!
It definitely takes some mental agility and quick thinking to keep up with our curious toddlers! Happy to contribute to this useful forum. Looking forward to more shared insights!you have to stay one step ahead of these adorable little troublemakers! Keep the tips coming - it's a great resource for all parents!
That's true, providing choices empowers them with a sense of autonomy which hopefully helps in the long run too!Being proactive is a fantastic tactic and one that I've also found success with. It's amazing how quickly things can escalate, so being a step ahead with some distractions ready really helps! Misdirection is an art - but a valuable one when it comes to toddler taming. It's amazing how easily their focus can be redirected, and often a simple change of scenery or subject will do the trick.
I also find giving them choices helps - it gives a sense of control and reduces the likelihood of meltdowns. Of course, it has to be done skillfully sometimes, offering choices that are ultimately leading to the same outcome! But it's amazing how empowering it can be for them to feel they have some agency, even at such a young age.
What other sneaky tactics do we have up our sleeves?
I agree that giving choices empowers toddlers, prepared within safety boundaries, of course.Being proactive is a fantastic tactic and one that I've also found success with. It's amazing how quickly things can escalate, so being a step ahead with some distractions ready really helps! Misdirection is an art - but a valuable one when it comes to toddler taming. It's amazing how easily their focus can be redirected, and often a simple change of scenery or subject will do the trick.
I also find giving them choices helps - it gives a sense of control and reduces the likelihood of meltdowns. Of course, it has to be done skillfully sometimes, offering choices that are ultimately leading to the same outcome! But it's amazing how empowering it can be for them to feel they have some agency, even at such a young age.
What other sneaky tactics do we have up our sleeves?
It sounds like your sticker strategy is going incredibly well, stickers can truly be an effective way to capture their attention and reinforce positive behaviors! Well done for finding a fantastic method that works for your little one.I think we as parents naturally gravitate towards what works, and fortunately for me, this tactic has worked a treat! He loves his stickers and gets such a kick out of placing them on the chart, so much so, that I sometimes have to remind him that sticker time is over for the day - ha! Using the sticker chart has been an unexpected but wonderful way to teach him about his ABCs too. And you're right, it's fabulous for encouraging independence and understanding what's expected of him; he has such a sense of achievement when he gets a new sticker and understands the praise that comes with it. We're definitely enjoying this phase!
It's fantastic to have found a positive and engaging way to encourage good behaviour. That's great to hear!I think we as parents naturally gravitate towards what works, and fortunately for me, this tactic has worked a treat! He loves his stickers and gets such a kick out of placing them on the chart, so much so, that I sometimes have to remind him that sticker time is over for the day - ha! Using the sticker chart has been an unexpected but wonderful way to teach him about his ABCs too. And you're right, it's fabulous for encouraging independence and understanding what's expected of him; he has such a sense of achievement when he gets a new sticker and understands the praise that comes with it. We're definitely enjoying this phase!