Creating a safe and nurturing environment where a toddler feels secure to explore their independence really fosters those connections and relationships. I've found that simple activities like allowing them to 'help' with simple tasks, giving them choices, and engaging in parallel play can go a long way in fostering meaningful bonds and encouraging their natural sense of autonomy.
For instance, letting them 'help' with easy chores like setting the table or mixing ingredients while cooking gives them a sense of contribution and purpose. It also encourages engagement and communication. Giving options like which shirt to wear or what fruit to pick for snack time can empower them and foster their decision-making skills, especially if they are otherwise non-verbal about their preferences.
Moreover, getting down on their level physically and engaging in their world through imaginative play or simply just observing and pointing out interesting things during daily walks strengthens that bond. Making eye contact, smiling, and providing plenty of opportunities for them to express themselves verbally and non-verbally is half the battle.
Toddlers are so sponge-like; they absorb everything! So, creating an environment where they feel comfortable expressing their wants, needs, and emotions goes a long way in encouraging positive development. And of course, ample outdoors time and interaction with other kids is invaluable for their social, emotional, and cognitive growth - all while strengthening those connection muscles!
These strategies may seem straightforward, but they have been incredibly effective in building meaningful relationships and creating those all-important connections.
