Life with multiples definitely has its unique challenges and rewards! For me, the biggest surprise was just how different my twins' personalities were from day one. They looked so identical, yet their temperaments and preferences couldn't have been more distinct. It felt like parenting two very different children which certainly kept me on my toes.
The most challenging aspect was probably managing feeding times, especially in the early months when they demanded to be fed around the clock. It felt like an around-the-clock relay! I'd love to hear if others had similar experiences with such distinct personalities, and how they navigated those early feeding challenges. Having some tips on how to manage the demands of multiples would have been so helpful during that tiring phase!
Also, as they grew a bit older, managing their different needs and interests became interesting. One wanted to go to soccer practice, the other wanted to stay home and read. Balancing their individual interests and ensuring each felt heard was tricky but we developed a system where they took turns choosing the day's activity.
As for advice, I'd say accept all the help offered, especially in those early weeks! And organize a reliable support system if you can, whether family or friends. It makes a huge difference to have someone around to lend a hand, even for an hour. Also, try not to get too overwhelmed - remember, this stage, demanding as it is, doesn't last forever!