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I've been trying to implement self-care into my daily routine, but I'm having a hard time prioritizing myself when there's always someone else who needs something from me - whether it's a partner, kids, work colleagues, or even neighbors. It feels like as soon as I finish one responsibility, another one pops up and I get so focused on taking care of others that I forget to take care of myself.
I've realized that this tendency is rooted in my upbringing where helping others was always emphasized over expressing one's own needs. While it's great to be a good helper, I'm now recognizing how necessary it is for me to have my own time and space to focus on personal growth and well-being. However, integrating self-care into my life feels like a huge task - like adding another responsibility on top of everything else.
I'm struggling with the 'how' part of mothering myself. What daily or weekly rituals can I establish that will help me prioritize my own needs and feel more grounded? How can I communicate these needs to others in a way that's assertive yet respectful, so they understand when I need some solo time to recharge?
I've realized that this tendency is rooted in my upbringing where helping others was always emphasized over expressing one's own needs. While it's great to be a good helper, I'm now recognizing how necessary it is for me to have my own time and space to focus on personal growth and well-being. However, integrating self-care into my life feels like a huge task - like adding another responsibility on top of everything else.
I'm struggling with the 'how' part of mothering myself. What daily or weekly rituals can I establish that will help me prioritize my own needs and feel more grounded? How can I communicate these needs to others in a way that's assertive yet respectful, so they understand when I need some solo time to recharge?