Toddlers come with their own brand of quirky personalities and challenges - like having an emotional rollercoaster as a daily special! I've found that giving them simple choices helps with assertiveness and reduces tantrums because they feel involved. For instance, between two outfits or snacks, etc. It's a fun way to engage them and also manage their expectations.
I'm no expert, just a mum trying to survive toddlerhood too! My boy keeps me on my toes with his boundless energy and strong opinions. I've learned the hard way that consistency is key and that "pick your battles" isn't just a cliche.
You're absolutely right! Giving toddlers choices is a brilliant way to empower them and involve them in decision-making, especially when it comes to managing their emotions. It's a great strategy to avoid the power struggle that often comes with asserting authority.
You've got it right about consistency, it's definitely a fine line we parents have to tread upon! But it gets exhausting, doesn't it, having to be so unwavering at times?
Besides offering choices, I also make sure to have a repertoire of engaging diversionary tactics up my sleeve! Like any good magician, I whip out an exciting activity or an unexpected toy to distract when needed. This comes in handy during tantrums or stubborn moments - a sudden burst of energetic play can shift the mood and refocus their attention.
It's amazing how something simple like play dough or stickers can save the day - and sanity - for all of us mums out there. Hope your tot enjoys it!
It's wonderful to have a support group sharing these great ideas - this should help us all manage our energetic little people, especially during the more challenging moments! Does anyone else have some unique but easy toddler management tricks up their sleeve?
It's a fun phase because they are so curious and easily excited by little things; there's always some simple trick or toy that can keep them occupied if we have the right tools! It just takes some experience and creativity!
I also find that having a generally flexible plan gives me the freedom to follow their interest cues on any given day.
Sometimes, the simple and most obvious strategies are the most effective ones, aren't they? It's really heartening to know that there's this shared understanding amongst us mums on keeping our little ones engaged. Have a great day ahead!
Having a loose plan is a great strategy - especially with toddlers, because as you say, interests can be fleeting but intense! It's good to leave some room for improvisation so we can seize those window of opportunities when they arise!
