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How does your family handle finances? Are you a free-flowing, open book or do you keep tight rein on the purse strings? Do you have shared accounts for everything or keep things separate?
I'm curious to hear how other families manage their money and what strategies they use to make it work. What has worked well and what has been total failures.
What about allowances for children? How do you decide who gets what and when? Do you involve the kids in any financial decisions or keep things under wraps? And how do you handle those tricky situations when one parent earns significantly more than the other, especially if that changes over time?
I'll go first. Our family has always kept three separate accounts. One for shared expenses - rent/mortgage, bills etc., a joint savings account we both contribute to for holidays and big purchases, then our own personal spending money which is ours to do with as we wish. I like this system because it's clear what is theirs, mine and ours. But I'm interested to hear other arrangements that work too.
I'm curious to hear how other families manage their money and what strategies they use to make it work. What has worked well and what has been total failures.
What about allowances for children? How do you decide who gets what and when? Do you involve the kids in any financial decisions or keep things under wraps? And how do you handle those tricky situations when one parent earns significantly more than the other, especially if that changes over time?
I'll go first. Our family has always kept three separate accounts. One for shared expenses - rent/mortgage, bills etc., a joint savings account we both contribute to for holidays and big purchases, then our own personal spending money which is ours to do with as we wish. I like this system because it's clear what is theirs, mine and ours. But I'm interested to hear other arrangements that work too.