Thank you for creating this space! I've been holding onto something for a while, unsure of how to share it without judgment. Here goes...
I've always felt like an outsider in my friend group. We're close, we have fun together, but I often feel like they don't truly understand me. It's hard because they're all so similar - same interests, hobbies, even political views - and I'm a bit different. While they're loud and outgoing, I'm more reserved and introverted. Their hobbies are adventurous and extravagant, while I enjoy quiet nights in with a book.
I often feel left out because they don't invite me to all their plans, assuming I'm not interested. It's not that I'm not interested; I just have different preferences. I love them, but I often wish they'd understand that just because I'm quiet, it doesn't mean I want to be left out. I want them to invite me along and include me in the things they do - I'm willing to step outside of my comfort zone, too!
It's reassuring to know this space exists where I can share these feelings without fear. Thank you for reading, and I look forward to hearing others' stories too. There's comfort in knowing we're not alone in our experiences.